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3. The Generation Game
Teen Suicide
Every teen-ager no matter the color of his skin, his beliefs or his
origins is sometimes confused about his life. Some of the youngsters don't
have someone to talk to or don't feel comfortable talking to their parents
and relatives about their problems and doubts. One of the solutions that
teen-agers find is escaping from reality through the consume of alcohol and
narcotics or they run away from home.
The worst end of a youngster's adolescence is death.
More and more, teen-agers seem to be turning to suicide as a desperate
solution to seemingly insolvable problems and feelings. Suicide is the
sixth leading cause of death for 5- to 14-year-olds and the third leading
cause for 15- to 24-year-olds. Alarmingly, the numbers are growing.
Whether a teen-ager actually wants to die or not, his suicidal
behavior speaks of deep feelings of impotence and helplessness. Given the
changes and challenges that adolescence poses, including physical, hormonal
changes, social and academic demands and a shifting role in the family,
youngsters may well feel overwhelmed and alone. In addition, today's
society offers a series of environmental stresses- divorce, single-parent
homes blended even families, poverty, overtaxed school systems, negative
peer pressure, as well as increased exposure to violence and illicit drugs-
that even the most resourceful youngster can have difficulty managing.
Suicidal attempts are not uncommon with children and adolescents who
have drug problems or conduct disorders or whose behavior seems aggressive
rather than despondent. Although it may be tempting to dismiss such
attempts as manipulative, they must be taken seriously, not only in terms
of their immediate danger but also as possible expressions of extreme
frustration, pain, anger and impulsiveness. Youngsters with conduct
disorders are notoriously inarticulate and may illustrate their pain with
self-destructive acts.
At the same time, teen-age behavior may seem perplexing to parents.
They may wonder if what they observe is indeed a cause for concern. From
time to time, they will likely notice a number of problematic behaviors in
their teen-ager that could be warning signs for suicide. These include:
-Withdrawal or isolation, especially if your child has always been
gregarious and outgoing;
-Signs of self-mutilation;
-Violent behavior such as punching holes in walls, getting into fights
or self-destructive violence;
-A consistent pattern of running away from home;
-A significant change in sleeping patterns: suddenly sleeps all the
time or does not sleep at all.
-Neglect of personal appearance (most adolescents always want to look
their best, even if their idea of looking good is completely at odds with
yours;
-Lingering lethargy, a dr |